Are You Pushing Against Life?
One of the greatest challenges we face as Human Beings, is our ability to understand our “Limited Identity” and how it affects our behaviour, decision making and the need to push and strive for perfection and achievement. It's also what's stops us moving forward. This aspect of mind drives us under a very common delusion which has huge consequences the more complex the situation is and the greater the challenge and likelihood of failure. It also keeps us stuck and digging a deeper hole. Our Limited Identity has an amazing ability to have us avoid what is really going on and creates an unwillingness to accept ‘what is.’ __ When we hit the ceiling of our limitations and we want to understand how to move forward we often turn to learning new knowledge or strategies for increasing effectiveness. We may even go a little deeper and start to process our emotions and feelings, but it is hard to face what we can't see about ourselves. The reason is, it’s the same operator (who you think you are) who is trying to develop new tools and skills which has very limited improvement. It's "Who you think you are", working on "Who you think you are." This is where a clear awareness of our “Limited Identity” makes a profound difference. Developing our awareness of our Limited Identity is our greatest challenge in life. It affects everything. When we do... We get to change the operator and we get the profound experience of a new way of being. This transformation changes the way we operate and skilfully and creatively develops a new level of freedom and confidence in the unfolding. The key is to incorporate our feelings and sensory awareness into a whole new way of operating. This becomes very exciting when we start to see the results it creates. Having worked with Business Owners and Leaders, over the last 17 years and taken them through my Mastering Your Self program, I have seen this new awareness have huge and dramatic effects on their happiness, fulfilment, and ability to produce unprecedented results and outcomes. They develop a greater level of courage, confidence, clarity and conviction. This is the work all human beings need to do, to transform our world. I love influencing influencers! Thats what my mission is and I am starting to feel the call to provide these teachings in a way that makes them more accessible to those who may be unable to afford to work with me 1-1. An Online Course To Empower You as a Leader on a Mission All the work you do with Being The One (whether it be a course, webinar or program) will take you on a journey to deeper discovery of the dynamics that rule your life. Using profound esoteric teachings from a number of traditions plus Being The One teachings, the intention of our work is to empower the shit out of you in whatever you are up to or wanting to succeed in, in your life. Desire and healthy ambition are all you need and we'll figure the rest out. With this work you will have a completely new relationship to your Self and what is possible and a profound awareness of a new way of operating that will delight and excite you and give you greater courage, clarity, confidence and conviction. If you have any questions I'l be more than happy to answer them. Here's to doing the Great work! It's the only game worth playing. With love Ian
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Unconsciously Searching For Power and Love
As a young man all I ever wanted was more power over myself and my life and more love from those I wanted love from. At 19 I had a few friends sit me down and explain to me why I needed to be more mindful of other people’s feelings. To be honest, up to that moment, considering other people’s feelings is something I had no concept of, I realised I had never done it before. I was so consumed and confronted by my own emotions and feelings, that “What? I have to consider other people’s as well?” Too much! But something switched on in that moment like an unconscious decision. “Maybe this is how you will get love” is what the internal voice seductively told me. And so, I started my journey of being more thoughtful, more considerate of what other people felt but I was feeling less and less powerful in who I related to myself as. I really started to hate myself and my shortcomings. So, I went back to being self-centred, which gave me some power back but left me feeling lonely and without love. I started to realise I had no idea what I was doing and how to really feel genuinely powerful in my life. What was I missing which others seemed to have? I knew I had intermittent power depending on the day and I had to admit to myself that I was poor at receiving love. It wasn’t till I was 28 that I realised what it was. My Awakening to Power and Love It's 1993, I am sitting staring at a wall, it's 6am, I'm in my London flat and I am asking myself “what is wrong with me?” over and over. I had been staring at the wall for hours. What I was really asking was; Why can’t I get it together? Why can’t I receive love? Why can’t I be successful? Why am I failing? Why do I feel like a fool? I was asking these questions with great intensity and earnestness. A bird sang for the morning chorus, and in that moment, there was no bird, there was no me, there was just singing permeating through my being, and my identity (who I think I am) dissolved into emptiness. For a brief moment in time ‘I’ ceased to exist. It was like restarting the computer. I am here, I am gone, I am back again. I have no idea how long I was gone for, but it changed the context of everything for me. I felt reset. My identity, my relationship to my Self, my reality, disappeared and I woke up to the truth of the ages. I woke up to Power and Love and I cried like a baby being born again. I had thousands of realisations over the coming weeks, as I began to see everything differently, it was like waking up from the Matrix. What I realised is that everybody wants to experience more power and more love in their lives, but few people know how to accomplish that. Instead, we chase the illusion of false power and sentimental, romantic, Hollywood idealist love. Guiding Others To Create A New Relationship To Power and Love You don’t have to meditate for years, you don’t have to learn the thousand realisations I received. It simply requires a reset of your relationship to your Self, to Power and Love and that can happen fast! It’s like turning around 180 degrees and facing in the opposite direction and that’s what we intend with our 1-day immersive Power and Love workshop. That's our bold promise with all our work. We turn you around! It’s an opportunity to redefine your Self in an empowering and exciting way, a line in the sand experience and we are offering this to our community. Click link for details. www.beingtheone.com.au/power-and-love-workshop.html Here's some key realisations that I got from my experience:
In our Workshop Power and Love, we have a transformative process to take you out of this loop of disempowerment or trying to get ahead, to a space of clarity, trust, and high effectiveness in making a positive difference in your world. This process “changed my life” as one participant expressed. There are many processes throughout the day which have the potential to change the course of your life. If you are a seeker of truth, who would love to be more highly effective at making a positive difference in the world, then you will love this workshop. Click below to book your place. Places are limited. www.ianandtia.as.me/events We’d love you to join us if this feels right for you! Seeing the Illusion
It started when I was 8. This feeling that I couldn’t quite describe. This feeling that something was wrong, something wasn’t quite right. “Why is everyone pretending to be something that they are not?” was the question I kept asking myself. What made it even more confusing was that on a ‘good’ day, when the sun was shining and I was happy, it seemed like what was wrong was over there with others and when it wasn’t a ‘good’ day. It was me, there was something wrong with me. As a young man, I knew there was something I wasn’t facing. I knew there was something I wasn’t willing to look at and understand and it was right in front of my eyes, so close, so intimate, so influential, that I just couldn’t see it. And then I asked myself why can’t I see it? Why can I feel it, but I just can’t see it? “I was staring at something that was staring at me, what the hell could it be?” I captured these words in a song I wrote, titled ‘I was dreaming’, in the middle nineties. I had a band; I was living in London chasing the illusive record contract. Yet still I hadn’t been able to make it out clearly, I was still struggling to understand what was keeping me vague… uncertain… doubtful and wrong. The fear started to creep in, which led to nervousness, then anxiety, then despair and suicidal fantasies, which I knew I wasn’t going to play out, so I stopped and settled into resignation. I resigned to the belief that I will never figure this out, I will never know what plagues me, what keeps me in this space, what haunts me in the background, no matter how well I do, no matter how good I feel, no matter how many wonderful people, places, and experiences I have, the pleasure to enjoy, I can’t escape it. It’s always there waiting for me. Facing The Dragon I’ve heard depression being described as the Black Dog, but I believe depression is just one of the emotions we feel when we face the black dog yet again. We are reminded it’s still there waiting for us. How depressing! So, what is the black dog from this perspective? It’s not a black dog really, is it? It’s just disguised as one. It comes in many disguises. Mine was no sullen black dog, mine was a dragon, fierce, intimidating, demonic, overwhelming. It scared the hell out of me. It knew me inside and out, it knew my every weakness, my every insecurity, doubt, concern, inadequacy. It knew how to play me for the fool I was. A child, naïve, uncertain, weak, defenceless, powerless, pretending to be confident and self assured. It only had to say one word (it knew the perfect word to say) and I would spiral into anxiety, then despair and anguish. The Turning Point (the aha moment) I decided I need to have courage, to be brave, after all it couldn’t destroy me, could it? If it could, it would have done it already, right? This questioning led me to realise something really pertinent, every time it tried to influence me and put me in danger something always saved me from it. Something came to my rescue, and I started to feel this sense of being divinely supported (you know, like angels were looking after me) and that changed my perspective, that gave me the courage to stand up to it. I tried to face it, I did my best, I tried to challenge it, but it was far smarter than I was. It had one edge over me that I just couldn’t understand, that I wasn’t willing to acknowledge and face. No, that can’t be it, can it? That can’t be true, that can’t be right. All my education and scientific mind balked at what my senses were telling me... what I could feel was true…that I came to the point of calmly accepting... This is not me. This is something else. That was the turning point. That was when I started to gain leverage and freedom from ‘it’. When I faced ‘it’, for what 'it' really is, everything started to change. For the first time in my life, I had the newfound freedom to step out of trying to control’ and gain back my command. But this thing is so sneaky, so subtle in it’s influences, that I needed to develop razor like awareness and a foundational sense of the ‘pure being’, to know when you are influenced, intoxicated, led astray, hijacked, and ultimately sabotaged. To do this I needed a high level of sensory perception. Where would I learn to develop this sensory perception? Especially in a world that strongly teaches and values mainly intellectual perception and analytical thought. I've Been In Training My Whole Life (and so have you!) I realised I had been learning to develop my sensory perception my whole life, I had always been in training. That’s when it dawned on me that it was my life mission to teach these skills to as many people as possible. To wake people up to what their true power was. Power with Love that is. Easier said than done! In the early days people just looked at me blankly and their version of ‘it’, would laugh at my inadequacy to articulate myself, to make sense for them of my experience. That’s when I realised this isn’t something that can just be described, this is something that needs to be experienced. Like a strawberry, how can you describe the taste? So, with the help of my amazing partner Tracy (Tia) Marcuzzi, we created a group course and a 1-1 program (Mastering Your Self) that took people through a journey of waking up to themselves and facing their illusions, to come to the subtle places where ‘it’ lurks. The Real Game Of Life There's nothing I love more than watching my participants faces light up as they realise who they really are and see deeply into the life they have been living, the illusions they have been buying into and be absolutely delighted with what they discover about themselves. My Job, my honour and the reason why I exist, is to help people wake up to themselves on a whole new level (there are many levels) navigate and support them through new expansive territory, and acquire the unique skills and abilities to feel, know and live, their own truth. When they know how to access their truth, they know their own way. Then they get the real game of life. "When I follow my own way, I create deep satisfaction and fulfilment, that I was yearning for, and was deeply missing from my life." With love, Ian Nesbitt Do you find yourself trying to please in your relationships?
Are you quick to put others needs before your own but later feel you've compromised or dishonoured yourself? We know a lot about the dynamics of pleasing, because both of us have had to acknowledge our 'pleasers' and how we have expressed them in our relationships over the years. So here's the not so fun news... (that some of you may relate to) Once a people pleaser always a people pleaser! We discovered this through the recent, painful experiences we've been going through in re-evaluating our relationship. As part of our greater commitment to ourselves and each other, we go through this process every couple of years. It's always an intense process... laying our cards on the table and owning up (on another level) to our deeper truth and what we desire to experience with the other. Through this process, what became obvious to us, was the ways in which we are still trying to please each other, the ways in which we are subtly compromising parts of ourselves to keep each other 'happy'. Let's face it. We all have parts of ourselves - those deeply vulnerable and hidden parts - that want and need acknowledging and expressing. And when we don't or can't acknowledge those parts, we can get caught up in lying to ourselves in some way or another, in lying to another, by pretending something doesn't exist. We maintain the pleasing so we don't have to face our deeper truth. When you are in a consciously evolving relationship, part of what is there to face, is that there are new parts of your Self that come up to be expressed. Though it can be challenging, part of the journey is to keep sharing the truth of what has been evolving for you, even if it means potentially disrupting or threatening the relationship. For us, we had to fess up to each other about those hidden parts and what we now want to experience - from our bedroom to our boardroom. We acknowledged that if we ignore or deny these parts, they will fester inside of us and potentially destroy our relationship. _______________________________________ WHY DO WE PLEASE? Pleasing is an all too common relationship dynamic to fall into, and one that starts early in life. We please others to maintain the status quo, to keep ourselves safe, to not disappoint or hurt others. It's about the subtle ways we compromise ourselves - through the seemingly minor choices we make everyday, to the deeper beliefs we hold within that has us change and morph our natural expression to suit what we believe the other wants. This can look like: • Saying yes to doing something for the other when you actually need time out for yourself • Lessening the importance of something you value because it may cause upset to the other person • Overlooking a strong need you have because it's inconvenient timing or just inconvenient in general • Holding back your natural impulses and desires because you believe they are: Too much for the other person Too "…… [insert your word here]…….. And assumingly not wanted Can you relate to any of these? These dynamics can play out in ANY relationship where you need to maintain your survival, your safety, your ability to receive love or support. _______________ How can we let go of our pleaser and move forward? A first good step is to acknowledge how you are still trying to please others. When you are ready, you may need to do some deeper work as the root of all pleasing begins in our childhood when we set up these unhealthy patterns. Some questions to ponder: What can you acknowledge in yourself that you may be afraid to share with others? What parts of you might you be hiding or compromising to maintain the safety and love of a relationship? Ultimately, this work is about accepting that we don't need to please or fix or put anyone else's needs before our own to receive love. Reach out if you need support in this area. We are here to help and have some deeply transformative processes we can take you through in our coaching. _______________________________________________ MOVING FORWARD Though it's been difficult to accept the parts of us that need validation, expression and greater independence, we have acknowledged that we are liberating ourselves and letting go of our unhealthy attachments, which has ironically brought us into deeper openness and love with each other! Because sometimes when you admit what you really want, you find that the other person has the capacity to grow in that area and often desires to fulfil those deeper needs too. We can let go of trying to please and commit instead to expressing more of our authentic Self with the support of our loved one. And whilst adjusting to new changes is never comfortable, the benefit is that we get to feel a clearer, stronger, deeper connection to our Selves and each other, so we can live with even greater integrity, authenticity and joy. It's Valentines Day and it's Monday!
Did you know Valentines Day is a day when the calls on the suicide hotline goes up drastically and Monday is the day with statistically the most suicides according to a quick google search. Not a good combination and I pray today is a day when people are feeling love for themselves, not self condemnation. The Hopi say that each culture sings songs about what they lack the most. "You people sing about love, we sing about water". Whether this is a true story or not it makes the point that romantic love isn't easy to come by rather like water in the desert. Self love may be even harder, where the hell would you find that?! Yet if you don't love your Self how is anybody else going to love you? If you are not being your Self and are caught up in pretending to be a particular way because you don't like yourself, then who would they be loving anyway? Your false sense of self? That's not you. As the song City Of Stars aptly puts; "It's Love, yes all we are really looking for is love from someone else" Yet anyone who has looked for this elusive love from somebody else knows how difficult it can be to find (water, desert) and if you do manage to find someone that is capable of loving you, how skilled are you at receiving love? You can't get love from someone else if you can't receive love. Damn! So where do we learn to receive love? From our parents? Maybe for 1% of us. Lucky you! For the rest of us we are left to fumble and fail our way through love, making the same mistakes, different mistakes, doing the same and different things, being the same and different ways and hoping this time it will be different. Really? Like love is a combination lock and we just got to find the right combination. The combination to a heart perhaps? Some of us get into a good negotiated love, I'll leave you alone to do what you like as long as you don't call me to account on my stuff and let's NEVER talk about how we feel, way too real! We have to have some good suppression of emotions to make this work. Maybe you found someone who is as good at it as you are. But as Kahlil once said you won't laugh all of your laughter or cry all of your tears. Monotone existence. I tried it for a while, it eventually becomes egg shell creeping. Looking for love versus finding love in ourselves is partly what our work is all about. If you are on the journey of deepening into Self-love, then you'll love the work we are presenting this year. Our Power and Love weekend Immersion and our Powerful, Real Relating Online Course are coming soon. Wishing you a beautiful Valentine's Day dear friends… May we all celebrate the sacred gift of love on this and every other day. Ian Nesbitt I didn’t mean to start a shit storm...but I did. It was the day before New Year’s Eve, and we were packing to go away when I heard about the fires burning across our country. Feeling deeply concerned, I impulsively posted a question on Facebook asking for research on what the cause could be (without saying it, perhaps implying that our governments policies and actions were to blame?) I put the post on to get an understanding of what other people felt and thought about this topic and I didn’t realise I would open up a pandoras box. The post quickly escalated with everyone firing attacks and belittling each other’s views and beliefs. Probably not the best way to ring in the new decade! And then I was personally attacked for being a community leader who irresponsibly opened up a conversation where conspiracy theories were allowed to be aired. **Sigh** This was not what I was intending with the post, but then again, what was I intending? I shut down the thread and reflected. I realised I was hoping for a deeper truth to be revealed. But what truth exactly? Not long after, we had friends over for the weekend and our friend Peter took us through a fantastic process with his new archetypal cards ‘Wonderfeel’ (we highly recommend them!) The cards represent different parts of our psyche, and the last card we chose represented a quality to be embraced at this time. That card was ACTIVIST. I didn’t resonate with the word at first. I was involved in one protest in my early twenties where we fought the extension of the Eastern freeway to protect the Mullum Creek. After the police forcibly removed me and 50 other peaceful protesters camped at the site, I realised a life of activism wasn’t for me. Peter asked what it means to be an activist today. One by one we got present to what was there for us. We realised that the activist has a deep desire to be of service in times of crisis or injustice – but it is not about looking or behaving in a way that we usually perceive an activist to be. The activist heeds a call for change but how it looks was completely unique to each of us! Everyone’s expression of their activist seemed to be dependent on their unique gifts and how they desired to create positive change. Through this process I was reminded that I love to activate others through the use of my words. And there was my answer right there... My intention all along was to reveal a deeper truth. The truth is I have the power to influence through my words. So how am I choosing to use them? Through this experience I got to see that I could become more responsible with my word, being mindful of the impact that my words create. That's what this lesson was all about for me.
To be reminded of the importance of the power of my word, especially during times of stress. Aacknowledging that I can create a conversation that inspires and uplifts, or I can put something out there impulsively, coming from fear. Because fearful conversation begets more fear, and that's not my intention. I desire to create safety, support and co-operation in the world. So next time I will have a good think before I put a post out there. Truly Tracy x Our Power and Love Workshop is coming up on January 25th, 2020. More than 2 years ago I received inner guidance to do Healing Massage sessions for men. I had been doing healing bodywork for about 7 years at this point but I had worked mostly with women. I put an ad out and despite providing a clear description of the nature of the service and that it was non-sexual, I received call after call asking, "Will I be wearing any clothes? Will you touch my penis? Can I touch you? Do you do hand release? Will you accept extra money for hand release? Knowing how to respond to these requests without judgement was quite difficult, but I worked through a lot of the judgement and anger that I was feeling about it and instead chose to get curious. I took on that I was ready to understand more about men and that this was the start of it. A turning point occurred for me when a man I would have called 'creepy' rang one day. He asked if I would inadvertently touch his genitals during the massage. I said I didn't do that but I asked him, without judgment, if that was what he was looking for. He then openly shared about his strict Catholic upbringing, about all the guilt and shame he carries with him everyday around his sexual feelings and how he just wants to be free of it. I explained to him there are experts who deal with sexual shame and I passed on the number of a Sexological Bodyworker I know. At the end of the call he expressed deep gratitude for my genuine kindness and understanding and sent me a lovely follow up text. It was a shift in that I didn't need to take those requests personally anymore. I let go of my resistance and found myself moving more into curiosity and compassion with these men. From then on the types of enquiries I was receiving, began to change. I was now getting calls from men who were in genuine need of massage, men who were stressed and just wanted nurturing, therapeutic and pampering touch. As I worked with more men, I started to see patterns in them - patterns of tension, areas where they were shut down, emotional blockages and so much more. I saw the sensitive side of men, their pain, their vulnerability and all the holding on they do. So many men are suffering because they are expected to be tough, to be manly. I could see the tender boy inside each of them, who was yearning to be loved and acknowledged, appreciated and soothed. With my acceptance and reassuring touch, men were starting to melt under my hands, they sighed, some roared and others cried. Many times I drove home crying myself as I realised how hard it is for a lot of men, how lonely and isolating it can be for many of them. As the work unfolded, I realised that the men who are coming to see me are actually seeking to connect with the suppressed and dormant parts of themselves. Even if they don't acknowledge it, they are craving deeper and more fulfilling connections with others where they can express these aspects of themselves too. Many of them are in unsatisfying relationships and don’t know how to ask for what they need. Single men who come to see me either lack the confidence or the know how to create the experiences they desire. These men are allowing me to guide them through a process that is awakening years of repressed feelings, emotions and desires and it's been incredible to witness. Most of the men coming to me are struggling to let themselves be with their sensitivity. What I am learning is that men feel as deeply as women do, they have rich emotional needs and a strong yearning to let go of control and surrender to more vulnerable states of being (if they allow themselves to). It's been mind-blowing and a privilege to see how men are responding to my work and loving touch.
All of this is showing me how confusing it can be to be a male in this day and age. A lot of men are still wearing the mask required of them by society, yet what I am valuing and appreciating through this work, is the extent to which men are beginning to allow themselves to be with their sensitivity, to open up and let themselves feel what is going on in their inner world. Through this process of validating men's experiences through hands on touch, men are giving themselves permission to be with all their yearnings and feel what is true for them. I can see how much relief it is providing and how men are starting to value themselves in a way they haven't before. Unfortunately society's narrative about men makes it difficult for them to safely explore themselves and they end up walking a fine line between being called weak and feeble or domineering and arrogant. At the end of the day, most men just want to feel loved, accepted and desired for all their humanity. Let's support our men to feel safe enough to explore, own and accept all aspects of themselves. With love Tracy Photo credit - Ryan Holloway (top) John Noonan (below) If you have a fascination with the Dark Side, if you feel debilitated by an inner Demon, if you have found 'feel good' spirituality isn't working for you, then maybe you are ready to leave the shore and go on the deeper journey of discovery. Loving Your Dark Side is about understanding the emotional and feeling dynamics we experience in our lives and how we try to stay one step ahead of them, by using stimulation, tricks of the mind, belief systems, materialism and spiritual anaesthetics. It's coming to terms with the realisation that in our daily lives we go through pain, frustration, anger, shame, fear, guilt and torment and many other feelings and yet we are taught and conditioned to sweep these under the carpet, to not let them get in the way of our lives and ambitions and if they do debilitate or overwhelm us, then that creates feelings of being a loser, a fool, a victim, a hopeless case. Yet what is possible when we turn and face the fear of our pain, is the gold and the gems, the power and the clarity that were ours all along. We step into the cave frightened and vulnerable, we step out with the roar and the power of victory over our Demon. The Demon of Debilitation, becomes a Demon for Love. Our power and heart integrate. The freedom and the depth of peace that becomes available steps us out of our childish wants and needs into a deeper sense of Self that has a far greater purpose and a clearer mission. We leave the shallows and safety of the shore and immerse into the depths, where we find our gold and where we truly belong.
In the 14 years of working with people's Dark Sides, I have often found that heart centred women and men are afraid of their 'power' because of a misunderstanding of what power is. They are afraid to show up in their 'power' for fear of not being liked or accepted and so we embellish our personalities with inauthentic qualities to fit in and belong, or we bow out and fade into the background, while we are left with this unerring feeling that something is missing. Knowing this brings clarity, taking the plunge creates power, skill and command of your self and your life. I would be honoured to guide you on that journey. with Love Ian If you are ready to deepen your personal journey, book a discovery call here: www.ianandtracy.as.me/discoverycalls If you have questions you can email me on info@beingtheone.com.au Imagine what would be possible if you were free of the one and only thing that holds you back. Imagine if you had grown up being free of that experience of yourself that inhibits or stops you from moving forward. Imagine if you had that level of freedom and the amazing energy that comes with it from a young age till now.
Imagine for a moment what you would be doing, what would your unique contribution to the world be? Where would you be now? What type of relationships would you have? What would you achieve or accomplish? What if you had access to that right now, no matter who you are or what your circumstances are? Your life would never be the same again. Life itself would never be the same again. This inner shift would dramatically alter your entire world and how it occurs for you. As the poet David Whyte so beautiful expressed it: “I have woken from the Sleep of Ages, and I am not sure if I am really seeing.... or dreaming........or simply astonished!!” What becomes available when we shift into this deeper experience of ourselves is the opportunity to live a life that is powerful, free and deeply authentic. We begin to take actions which are more aligned with and honouring of, our truth and our unique gifts. This provides us with our greatest satisfaction and fulfilment. In my experience, it is the source of our true happiness. Why Now? I invite you to consider that we live in unprecedented times, we have vast information available to us and yet it could be said that more and more of us are losing ourselves or are being left behind by the relentless pursuit of economic growth. Now more than ever there is a requirement for us to step into a deeper level of authentic expression and live our truth, rather than the prepackaged truth we are programmed to live. More and more people are asking themselves; how can I get out of this situation I find myself in? How can I pursue what I am really here to do, when I have to face my bills every month? There is an answer and there is a way and that way is in you. It is you. It is who you really are. THE ONE AND ONLY THING THAT STOPS US However there is a great challenge that we all face, that stops us from expressing our true power. There is something in the way of our pure expression, something that has distracted our attention for a very long time and until we see what that is and how it works, how it keeps us occupied into limiting beliefs and feelings, we will never have the freedom to realize what we are truly capable of. We will always be left with the uneasy feeling and the belief that “something is missing”. THE FREEDOM OF WHO YOU REALLY ARE Realizing the true you is freedom..........That is what true freedom is. The freedom to be free from this inner mechanism that stops you from seeing Who You Really Are, the freedom to express yourself in your full power and joy; This is your face before your parent’s birth as they say in Zen. I have learnt from working with many people over the years; we can do therapy for years, we can meditate for years, we can do a vast array of personal development courses, body practices and spiritual training, we can have all manner of success and material wealth, and although these are important to us, until we come to this mechanism that influences our every choice and colours our world and what we see, we will never be free of the influence that this inner mechanism has on us and it will cause us to struggle and suffer. TO HAVE POWER OVER THAT WHICH HAS POWER OVER YOU I have worked for 10 years to create a way that presents people with the opportunity to finally be free of this debilitating aspect of ourselves. To finally have power over that which has power over you. This has been my calling. I have devoted my life to it. It’s what I am here to do; it’s my gift, so to speak. I started by creating a 12 session process which I called The Realizing Process and later changed to Mastering Your Self. I took people individually through the journey of gaining back their power. This process produced some remarkable results, dramatically altering the direction of participants lives. In two cases, two separate clients went from deep depression and stagnation to travelling the world doing amazing work with remote communities. Following these successes and many more, I then took the major aspects of the Realizing Process and with my partner and gifted Energy Healer Tracy we added our different qualities and processes and created an 8 week group journey which we called ‘Being The One’. This 8 week deep dive into our shadow received high acclaim from the participants as they had significant shifts for themselves and their lives. This success inspired us to create a weekend intensive which allows people to have this deep and profound experience of themselves over the course of a weekend. That way we will be able to travel with the course and bring it to other cities. My mission is to bring this ‘Realisation’, to as many people as possible. It is very exciting times that we are living in as the world goes through a profound evolution. It calls us to question and reassess everything, including who we think we are. My goal is to accelerate that evolutionary process so that we can transform this beautiful world for the betterment of all. If this article resonates for you then I invite you to come and join us on this exhilarating journey of discovery of uncovering the constantly unfolding mystery of Who You Really Are. It is an exciting and profound journey that allows you to break free of the source of your limitations and what stops you. With Love Ian Nesbitt |
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