No matter what pain you are dealing with, there is something you are not realising about YOU.

Hello, I'm Ian and I help people realise what is at the source of their pain and torment so they can be free to live the life they desire.
The great news is, it doesn't have to take years of therapy. You can free yourself from your torment in less than 6 sessions.
It's been my absolute privilege to show people over the last 20 years the tools needed to have greater command and mastery in facing challenges and excelling in life.
It all starts with a willingness to take yourself on and consider that maybe you have got yourself completely wrong, maybe you have been looking in the wrong direction!
When you get real about what is driving you and where you have been operating from, stress, overwhelm, frustration and a loss of love, start to dissolve and a new you emerges, a you that will surprise and delight you and those around you.
The great news is, it doesn't have to take years of therapy. You can free yourself from your torment in less than 6 sessions.
It's been my absolute privilege to show people over the last 20 years the tools needed to have greater command and mastery in facing challenges and excelling in life.
It all starts with a willingness to take yourself on and consider that maybe you have got yourself completely wrong, maybe you have been looking in the wrong direction!
When you get real about what is driving you and where you have been operating from, stress, overwhelm, frustration and a loss of love, start to dissolve and a new you emerges, a you that will surprise and delight you and those around you.
What Previous Clients Have Said About Ian's work
"Thanks for an AWESOME Awesome session!! I really got a lot out of it and it’s given me a number of things to think about, to be grateful for, respect for myself for all my hard work and excitement for all the great accomplishments I now recognise I am fortunate to have achieved. I do recognise I am a powerful person and I am working towards not shutting down aspects of myself that I feel more comfortable suppressing."
Kathy Kaiser
Senior Management Accountant
Faculty of Science, Melbourne University
"I recommend Ian Nesbitt as an extraordinary coach. From his own work with many people over many years, he has landed on a very effective process. In my time I’ve read many wise books of psychology, spirituality and theology but I would have never gotten to this point/level without Ian's coaching. He’s not like a counsellor who just lets you do the talking but instead coaches you through a step by step process. Ian pushes you with a hand on your shoulder through a process in which the head can forget the books its read, and the heart and gut have a chance to speak. Without his firm guide to keep me on target, I would have stepped off the track and out of the process. I’m sure he would be helpful for women too but as an attentive man in a feminist age, he asked me to be sure about my stances – was I too apologetic, was I insufficiently being true to my own gender, and that was helpful too. He always kept a sharp eye for the truth and wouldn’t let me get away with my escape routes to hide in rationalising, or self-pitying or other forms of avoidance. He wasn’t interested in diversions or distractions but was unstintingly laser sharp at asking the penetrating question and monitoring signs of progress in my answers." -
Tony Brennan,
Husband, Dad, Songwriter, Poet,
Director of Mission
Calgary Hospitals
"I recently had a "Get Real" session with Ian which was excellent. During the session Ian helped me relax and connect to a deeper intelligence within. I found it really helpful and powerful and got deep insight at an experiential level about how to live in a more empowered way and consistently operate from that place. Since then my business has really taken off and I have a new level of clarity and confidence around what my goals are and my ability to reach them. Ian really creates a safe space for this whole experience. Highly recommended"
Chris Blackwell
Business Owner & Facilitator
Harmonic Elixers
"I feel happier and back in control of my destiny. I’m no longer tormented! Ian gets me, is very intuitive, and knows what pace to take me at."
Tony Carter,
TJ Carter Accountants
"Thanks for an AWESOME Awesome session!! I really got a lot out of it and it’s given me a number of things to think about, to be grateful for, respect for myself for all my hard work and excitement for all the great accomplishments I now recognise I am fortunate to have achieved. I do recognise I am a powerful person and I am working towards not shutting down aspects of myself that I feel more comfortable suppressing."
Kathy Kaiser
Senior Management Accountant
Faculty of Science, Melbourne University
"I recommend Ian Nesbitt as an extraordinary coach. From his own work with many people over many years, he has landed on a very effective process. In my time I’ve read many wise books of psychology, spirituality and theology but I would have never gotten to this point/level without Ian's coaching. He’s not like a counsellor who just lets you do the talking but instead coaches you through a step by step process. Ian pushes you with a hand on your shoulder through a process in which the head can forget the books its read, and the heart and gut have a chance to speak. Without his firm guide to keep me on target, I would have stepped off the track and out of the process. I’m sure he would be helpful for women too but as an attentive man in a feminist age, he asked me to be sure about my stances – was I too apologetic, was I insufficiently being true to my own gender, and that was helpful too. He always kept a sharp eye for the truth and wouldn’t let me get away with my escape routes to hide in rationalising, or self-pitying or other forms of avoidance. He wasn’t interested in diversions or distractions but was unstintingly laser sharp at asking the penetrating question and monitoring signs of progress in my answers." -
Tony Brennan,
Husband, Dad, Songwriter, Poet,
Director of Mission
Calgary Hospitals
"I recently had a "Get Real" session with Ian which was excellent. During the session Ian helped me relax and connect to a deeper intelligence within. I found it really helpful and powerful and got deep insight at an experiential level about how to live in a more empowered way and consistently operate from that place. Since then my business has really taken off and I have a new level of clarity and confidence around what my goals are and my ability to reach them. Ian really creates a safe space for this whole experience. Highly recommended"
Chris Blackwell
Business Owner & Facilitator
Harmonic Elixers
"I feel happier and back in control of my destiny. I’m no longer tormented! Ian gets me, is very intuitive, and knows what pace to take me at."
Tony Carter,
TJ Carter Accountants

Ready to take yourself on and experience the benefits?
The journey begins with an
Introductory 2 HOUR
'GET REAL'
COACHING SESSION
The journey begins with an
Introductory 2 HOUR
'GET REAL'
COACHING SESSION
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Sessions are available at Clifton Hill (Tuesday and Thursday) as well as Online sessions via Zoom.
All sessions are conducted in a confidential manner with your highest interests at heart.

Our Guarantee To You:
We want our customers to feel glad they came to work with us, so our Coaching Sessions and Programs come with a full money back guarantee.
If you feel you didn't get any real value from your session, we will give you a full refund no problem.
We want our customers to feel glad they came to work with us, so our Coaching Sessions and Programs come with a full money back guarantee.
If you feel you didn't get any real value from your session, we will give you a full refund no problem.
WHAT WILL I GET OUT OF A GET REAL COACHING SESSION WITH IAN?
What Ian's Get Real Session Participants have reported:
What Ian's Get Real Session Participants have reported:
- Clarity and awareness around work and relationships
- Freedom from the torment of negative and destructive thought patterns
- A sense of relief and peace of mind around emotionally draining issues
- Less head talk and more mental space to create and live life
- Greater ability to be relaxed and at ease with your circumstances
- Greater inspiration and excitement around the future
"After an extended period with one company I felt that I had lost my edge and was getting stale. I believed that I had slipped into the corporate psyche and was unable to make the changes needed to re-invigorate myself and my team.
In one Get Real session Ian opened me up to a new understanding of where I was positioned and what needed to be done to move forward. It also clarified the key understanding that I was the only one standing in my way. I learned much about my own behaviour and how this impacts those around me and the outcomes I seek. I have been able to use the learning gained to develop stronger relationships and improve balance in my home life."
Cliff Abbott
National Design Centre Manager
Australand
In one Get Real session Ian opened me up to a new understanding of where I was positioned and what needed to be done to move forward. It also clarified the key understanding that I was the only one standing in my way. I learned much about my own behaviour and how this impacts those around me and the outcomes I seek. I have been able to use the learning gained to develop stronger relationships and improve balance in my home life."
Cliff Abbott
National Design Centre Manager
Australand
Ready to take yourself on and change the way you operate?